Well, it’s been a long time since I posted anything here. The site itself was just suddenly gone sometime mid-2021. I don’t know if was from an attack or a server error with the host, but is all just disappeared. Unfortunately I can’t find any of my old backups to restore the site, so I’ll […]
I’m going to add to the “Is being polyamorous a sexual identity or not?” debate. Lovers are gonna love and haters are gonna hate, so here we go. My opinion: Being polyamorous is not a sexual identity. I think that what gender you are sexually attracted to is sexual identity (gay, straight, bi, queer, etc.). […]
What is “successful polyamorous relationship”? Often in the comments section of articles on the Internet about polyamory (or other open relationships) I see people saying things such as “I’ve never seen a successful polyamorous relationship.” Which makes me wonder: what do they consider a “successful polyamorous” relationship to be? What is their benchmark upon which […]
I wrote this some time ago somewhere else, but thought it would be good to dust it off considering the current Christian backlash toward plural relationships such as polyamory and polygamy. Just a brief history of plural relationships in the Christian faith: A brief history of celibacy in the Church. It all started in 305 […]
Recently I was reading a polyamory message board I subscribe to and came across a post from a couple just introducing themselves to the group. This couple is looking for a poly relationship but have been discouraged because as they put it: “All that’s out there is swingers and polygamists”. Wow. This is a stark […]