Bigger Love » Sexuality http://www.bigger-love.com Information about Polyamory, Swinging, BDSM, Open Relationships and Alternative Lifestyles Thu, 12 Jan 2012 01:51:11 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1
The comedy in getting a vasectomy http://www.bigger-love.com/2011/07/the-comedy-in-getting-a-vasectomy/ http://www.bigger-love.com/2011/07/the-comedy-in-getting-a-vasectomy/#comments Sun, 03 Jul 2011 22:23:21 +0000 Lucius Scribbens http://www.bigger-love.com/?p=711

Ah memories. Even better when there is comedy attached to it. Four years ago I did the vasectomy thing. Of course it is an outpatient procedure. As I was in the urologist’s office, laying there on the table as he started the procedure, the local classic rock station was on the radio in the room and what song should come on? The Wreck of the Edmond Fitzgerald.

A song about dead seamen.

The universe has a sense of humor.

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History of The Vibrator A brief history of the vibrator
Graphic Source: History of the Vibrator www.Va-Va-Voom.com

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I’ve been listening to quite a few Dan Savage “Savage Love” podcasts recently and there seems to be one common theme among his callers: Many are fearful that they are freaks and their fantasies are twisted and wrong.

I’d just like to reach-out to you folks, and others like you, and say this:

You are not weird. You are not “wrong”. You are not perverted. Your fantasies are not disgusting. You are normal.

There are no unnatural sex acts. As Alfred Kinsey once said: “The only unnatural sexual act is that which you cannot perform.” I’ll take is a step further and qualify it with the words “adult” and “consenting” and phrase it as such:

The only unnatural sexual act between consenting adults is that which their bodies cannot perform. So don’t let anyone tell you that you are sick and perverted because your sexual fantasies and turn-ons don’t match theirs.

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The DungeonPlace.com podcast has returned with your’s truly and many wonderful people.

In this episode we talked about “right” and “wrong” relationships and who you should listen to when it comes to advice about your relationships.

We also talked about kink bleeding-over in the vanilla world and some thing non-kinky people do that they don’t see as kinky but really is.

Check-it out, download it, enjoy.

DungeonPlace Podcast Episode 43: We Are Back! | DungeonPlace.com.

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How would you define the term “sex positive”?

To me being sex positive is being open to ALL kinds of sexual preferences and interests and not discriminating based on personal feelings or preferences. What someone likes may not be what I like, but because it is their kink it is just as valid as mine.

In my opinion the moment you judge someone else’s sexuality (being consensual and of legal age) you cease to be sex positive.

Ask me anything about polyamory, swinging or open relationships

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