It seems everyone is looking for a way to tell if a neighbor, friend or coworker is a swinger. But there really isn’t any secret swinger sign or symbol.
Yes, I like sex. Yes, I like variety in my sex. No, I’m not into racking-up a high score. Yes I’ll take a one night stand with the right person. No, I don’t go looking for one night stands. Yes, I can fall in love with more than one person.
There is a very small number therapists who are versed in relationships other than heterosexual monogamous ones. Why are they so down on them?
One is “replacement” relationships which can be harmful to your current relationship, the latter is “additional” relationships that build on your current relationship.









