With the Tiger Woods and Jesse James cheating spectacles I thought it might be good to do a reality check about cheating.
Estimates are that about 20% of couples in the United States practice some sort of consensual non-monogamy, whether it be polyamory, swinging, cuckolding, an occasional threesome or just plain having an open-relationship with permission to date and have sex with other people in one manner or another.
Tiger woods delivered his public apology today. It was nice. It was sincere. But it was stupid that he even had to do it. Tiger hasn’t done anything at least half of his fans haven’t done, are doing or will do. He hasn’t done anything that at least half of America hasn’t done, are doing [...]
There was a great article about a polyamorous triad in the Boston Globe back on January 3, 2010 titled Love’s New Frontier, and of course the requisite comments from the morality police with nothing more to do all day than post to news sites. All but one, spouting their own stories of perfect marriages and [...]
Again recently I have had to sit back and think to myself why many monogamists think as they do. Try to understand what make them tick and what makes them think I am weird or “wrong” and their way is normal or “right”. What happened to make me ruminate like this was a woman. Yes, [...]