Why is it that many people acknowledge the fact that you can be in love with two people simultaneously but then believe you also have to chose just one? Especially if the two are fine with sharing your affections and time?
More about this in another post.
Dirty little secrets
Dirty little lies
We got our dirty little fingers in everybody’s pie
We love to cut you down to size
We love dirty laundry- Don Henley in Dirty Laundry
I’m sure most anyone in the kink and polyamory communities have by now heard of the University of Northern Virginia ICE raid looking for evidence that the school was using visa loopholes to help immigrants stay in the U.S. When ICE didn’t find anything damning in that regard, but found BDSM and polyamory information and websites on the Chancellor of the university’s personal computer they released that information as part of the investigation and TheSmokingGun.com picked-up on it right away, I assume creating a fake profile on Collarme.com, finding David Lee and his wife’s profile there and releasing it to the public in a sex-shaming story.
I don’t know how someone’s personal sex life has anything to do with illegal immigration, but I’m sure the information found on his computer had to be reported in the ICE’s documents filed with the courts, which some bottom-feeder “journalist” at TheSmokingGun.com picked-up on from a court docket and decided someone else’s sex life would make good news. Or at least more titillating news than the possible immigrant visa violations.
I think if someone is to report on someone else’s sex life, their sex life should also be open to public scrutiny. It’s only fair. As W. Somerset Maugham once said: “There is hardly anyone whose sexual life, if it were broadcast, would not fill the world at large with surprise and horror.”
This is yet another good lesson in taking appropriate steps to keep your private life private, especially if it is anything outside of one man, one woman missionary style sex for procreation purposes while she stares at the ceiling memorizing tomorrow’s grocery list. And even more so if you are anything more than a office drone at a local plumbing company.
Just started reading A Billion Wicked Thoughts by Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam and I came across a bit of information that piqued my interest.
There always seems to be a large disconnect between what people say turns them on and what actually does. In A Billion Wicked Thoughts the authors analyze this through people’s use of the Internet to find sex and sexual images. To do this the authors studied the secret sexual behavior of more than a hundred million men and women around the world by examining what they do on the Internet. To this end they “analyzed a billion web searches, a million websites, a million erotic videos, a million erotic stories, millions of personal ads and tens of thousands of romance novels.”
So beware, I may be sharing a freaky fact or two with you as I read this book.
The first little discovery of theirs I found interesting is what group sex situation men prefer. Publicly men (including Adam Carolla) say the only threesome scenario acceptable is two women and one man (FMF). However, men’s online porn viewing habits show a whole different scenario. Although websites that show FMF porn are popular there is only one website on the Alexa Adult List that is dedicated to multi-female/one male sex, yet there are 381 websites that are dedicated multi-male/one female sex. It seems what men say and what they are paying to watch while masturbating is completely opposite.
On the PornHub Top 300 most-viewed group sex videos list 14.7 percent are multi-men/one woman and only 8.3% are multi-woman/one man.
So ladies, you may think your man wants you to share your girlfriend with him (and I’m sure he won’t mind), but he’s really about you getting banged by him and a few of his closest friends after the Super Bowl party.
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