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Swinging from a non-swinger's prespective

For reasons of being lazy and too tired to write more tonight, I’m going to repost here a response to a blog entry on swingers titled “Swingers… Why?” that I added a comment to earlier. It’s a well-written article by a someone in a monogamous relationship looking at non-monogamous relationships. I think the author’s response […]

Fat Girls and Swinging

A question that I get asked a lot in the swinging lifestyle is about body types and beauty.  Some examples: “I’m not thin or beautiful will anyone be attracted to me?” “I’m not a size 2 or a size 10; no one will want a fat girl.” “What if my penis isn’t big enough?” “I […]

Advice for the Newbie Swinger

I wish I’d written this, but I didn’t.  This is some great advice for anyone thinking about swinging.  Hell, it’s great advice for even non-swingers to help them understand swingers and what the lifestyle is really about.  This post comes from The Swingers Board, which in my opinion is the #1 resource on the web […]

Injury, Illness and Break-ups

I’ve been meaning to write a post for quite a while now about a situation Mrs. Scribbens and I have encountered in the past few months, but it took me so long to write it that it’s completely changed, litterally made a 180 degree turn on us.  So here it is in today’s context. Last […]

Fantasy vs. Reality, take 2

This is a follow-up to my post Fantasy vs. Reality where I talked about the difference between real life and the life you share with a lover away from real life: kids, finances, in-laws, work, etc.  I think maybe in that post I didn’t express myself well enough, or some of it was taken out […]