Do you believe a spiritual practice, like Shamanisim, and BDSM can be blended successfully?

This is a good question because I personally do not see the “spirituality of BDSM” like some others. Not saying they are wrong, but I don’t see it the same.

That said, there is definitely a space, a state of being that is reached in BDSM that some might call “spiritual”. As strictly a top I get in a space that is as emotionally cleansing as meditation, just in another way. I see how bottoms react and the state of being they achieve during a scene and the emotional response they have. To call that not being in some way spiritual for many would be irresponsible and short-sighted of me, because having witnessed it tells me it is for them.

Ask me anything about polyamory, swinging or open relationships