Secret swinger signs and symbols

Pampas Grass in front of homeContrary to popular belief there are no signs or signals that swingers use to attract other swingers. But it still seems that some people are always looking for a way to find-out if a friend, neighbor or coworker is a swinger.

The idea that there are secret swinger symbols also supports the commonly held belief that because a swinger will have sex with someone besides their spouse that they’ll have sex with whoever just comes along, when in fact swingers are just as picky as anyone else in society about who they are attracted to and who they will get naked with. Just like the joke: “Yes I’m polyamorous. No I won’t have sex with you.” the same can be said for swingers: “Yes I’m a swinger. No I won’t have sex with you.”

Still, here are some of the popular urban legends that I’ve heard:

  • Pineapple placed upside down in a shopping cart
  • A pineapple door knocker
  • A woman wears an anklet on her right leg
  • A woman wears an anklet on her left leg
  • White landscaping rocks in someone’s front yard
  • Wearing a thumb ring
  • Wearing a toe ring
  • A man or woman wearing a red ball cap
  • Switching the wedding ring to the right hand
  • Yin-Yang tattoo
  • Pampas grass in the front yard garden
  • Pink or purple decorations in the front yard
  • A fire pit in the yard
  • A hot tub in the yard

Are there any that you’ve heard of? Add them in the comments section below.