Secret swinger signs and symbols

By on September 4th, 2010

pampas grass 300x258 Secret swinger signs and symbolsContrary to popular belief there are no signs or signals that swingers use to attract other swingers. But it still seems that some people are always looking for a way to find-out if a friend, neighbor or coworker is a swinger.

The idea that there are secret swinger symbols also supports the commonly held belief that because a swinger will have sex with someone besides their spouse that they’ll have sex with whoever just comes along, when in fact swingers are just as picky as anyone else in society about who they are attracted to and who they will get naked with. Just like the joke: “Yes I’m polyamorous. No I won’t have sex with you.” the same can be said for swingers.

Still, here are some of the popular urban legends that I’ve heard:

  • Pineapple placed upside down in a shopping cart
  • A woman wears an anklet on her right leg
  • White landscaping rocks in someone’s front yard
  • Wearing a thumb ring
  • Wearing a toe ring
  • Switching the wedding ring to the right hand
  • Yin-Yang tattoo
  • A bracelet worn on the left ankle
  • Pampas grass in the front yard garden
  • Pink or purple decorations in the front yard

Are there any that you’ve heard of? Add them in the comments section below.

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  • http://www.cuckoldoodleyou.blogspot.com marjorie

    Well there SHOULD be some signs, shouldn’t there? Maybe I should ad some purple pampas grass to the front yard and see who comes a-knockin?

  • Kevin

    The woman wears a silk scarf tied around her neck.

  • Sfcuties

    > Yin-Yang tattoo

    “Lifestyle lounge” has a logo that looks a whole lot like the “Ying Yang”, and they do have temporary tattoos with that logo. We’ve worn them to events.

    So this could be true, in a weird way.

  • k k

    adirondack chairs in the front yard LOL

  • Hmmlomsld

    Me and my husband are new at this. Can someone tell us what are real signs? We don’t want to offend anyone.

  • http://biggerlove.wordpress.com/ LScribbens

    There really aren’t any. I’ve always held that unless you see someone at a known swinger’s party having sex with people besides their spouse, don’t assume they are swingers. 

  • http://biggerlove.wordpress.com/ LScribbens

    Wouldn’t you get splinters?

  • Log2000

    When talking to someone, couple etc… Toss in the phrase “Vanilla” to discribe something. Most people dont use this except swingers in discribing non swingers.

  • Electricmommy

    overhead garage door open to indicate a “swap” party in on.

  • Joe_sk1

    Ankle bracelet with H W, SLUT or BBC are signs for sure. Wife wears SLUT /HW and they work