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September 2008

Fantasy vs. Reality, take 2

This is a follow-up to my post Fantasy vs. Reality where I talked about the difference between real life and the life you share with a lover away from real life: kids, finances, in-laws, work, etc.  I think maybe in that post I didn’t express myself well enough, or some of it was taken out […]

How can I get my girlfriend or wife to have a threesome or swing?

How can I convince my partner to have a threesome or to swing? This is a question you see a lot of, simply because many people have group sex fantasies but are in relationships where their partner either doesn’t share the fantasy or is totally unreceptive to hearing anything about their partner’s sexual fantasies…

Fantasy vs. Reality

A tough part about any sexually and/or emotionally open relationship where relationships are allowed outside the primary relationship (i.e. either party can play solo and/or have a loving relationship with someone else not living with the primary couple) is time-share and fantasy vs. reality.  There are many good articles on web blogs concerning time-sharing between […]

A quote I like

“Love withers under constraints: its very essence is liberty: it is compatible neither with obedience, jealousy, nor fear: it is there most pure, perfect, and unlimited where its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve.” Percy Bysshe Shelley, Queen Mab notes